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4 Types of TV Shows That Highly Narcissistic People Love to Watch

People with more narcissistic personality traits watch these kinds of TV shows. People who watch more reality TV tend to have more narcissistic personality traits, new research finds. Those who watch more news programs, though, tend to have lower scores on a test of narcissism. Reality shows may simply draw more people who have vain and narcissistic traits. It could also be that the shows are contributing to people’s narcissism. Ted Dickinson, a study co-author, said: “I suspect the truth is probably somewhere in the middle. Some people with narcissistic

The Diet That Reduces Depression Risk

People eating this diet felt more positive and were more likely to be flourishing. Eating raw fruits and vegetables is linked to better mental health, new research finds. People eating raw fruit and veg were at lower risk of depression and more likely to be flourishing and feeling positive about life. Raw bananas and apples were particularly beneficial, along with ‘salad fixings’. Just over 6 servings of raw fruit and vegetables provided the maximum benefit to mental health. Cooked, canned or processed fruits and vegetables were not linked to the

The Clothing That Makes People Feel More Empathy

How clothing affects the empathy that other people feel towards us. Wearing less revealing and more comfortable clothing makes other people feel more empathy towards you, new research finds. However, when women in the study wore a short dress, heels and heavy make-up, it reduced how much empathy others felt towards them. The same was true whether it was a man or woman observing the other woman. When wearing comfortable trousers, a jersey, ballet flats and light make-up, others felt more empathy towards them. The results are likely because revealing

The Secret to Helping Children Thrive (And It’s Not a Theory or a Technique)

The Secret to Helping Children Thrive (And It’s Not a Theory or a Technique)

I recently visited a kindergarten classroom to observe a child with “behavior problems.” When I arrived, the little boy was busying himself with an art project. He and his classmates were building towers out of cardboard box pieces. Everything seemed fine until a peer suddenly grabbed the glue from him, knocking his beloved project to the floor. Looking confused and upset, he scanned the room for his teacher, who was helping another student. Not sure what to do, the child began to cry, moved his chair, and crawled under the

The IQ Score People Say Is Most Attractive

The IQ Score People Say Is Most Attractive

Intelligence was rated the second most attractive trait in a person. The most attractive IQ for people is 120, new research finds. An IQ of 120 means that a person is more intelligent than 90% of the population. A higher intelligence than 120, though, started to become less attractive, the researchers also found. In ranking the most attractive traits overall, intelligence came behind being kind and understanding and ahead of having an exciting personality and being easy-going. The results come from a survey of 383 people aged 18 to 35

This Relationship Halves Your Dementia Risk

This Relationship Halves Your Dementia Risk

It provides an extra layer of protection against dementias like Alzheimer’s disease. Being married or in a close relationship almost halves the risk of developing dementia, new research finds. It is likely because those in close relationships have an extra layer of protection against depression. Depression is a known risk factor for dementia. Professor Eef Hogervorst, who led the study, explained it could also be down to a healthier lifestyle: “It might be because other studies often found that married men on average have healthier lifestyles than single men –

Being A Loner Has This Mental Advantage

Being A Loner Has This Mental Advantage

Being a loner for the right reason can have surprising advantages. Spending time alone is linked to increased creativity among some people, research finds. Not all forms of social withdrawal are unhealthy, it seems. However, it depends on the reason for the withdrawal. Social withdrawal related to anxiety and fear is linked to negative outcomes, but social withdrawal without this feature is linked to creativity. Dr Julie Bowker, the study’s first author, said: “Motivation matters. We have to understand why someone is withdrawing to understand the associated risks and benefits.

2 Video Games Linked To High Intelligence

2 Video Games Linked To High Intelligence

Some video games can act like an IQ test. Certain strategy games can act like an IQ test, according to new research. People who perform well at the two games also did better at standard paper-and-pencil intelligence tests. One of the video games is called ‘League of Legends’, a popular game which has millions of players around the world. The second game is called Defence of the Ancients 2 (DOTA 2). Professor Alex Wade, who led the study, said: “Games such as League of Legends and DOTA 2 are complex,

The Childhood Foods That Increase IQ

The Childhood Foods That Increase IQ

The more of the foods they consumed, the higher their IQs. A diet low in sugars, fats and processed foods consumed at a young age may increase your intelligence, research finds. Children under 3-years-old fed diets that are packed full of nutrients and vitamins have higher IQs. The more healthily they eat, the higher their IQ. The study followed the wellbeing and health of 14,000 children born between 1991 and 1992 in the UK. What they ate was tracked up to the age of 8, when they were given an

This Familiar Drink Kills Brain Stem Cells

This Familiar Drink Kills Brain Stem Cells

Without stem cells, new brain cells cannot be produced. Alcohol kills stem cells in the brain, new research finds. Stem cells are responsible for making new cells — known as neurogenesis — and are key to maintaining normal cognitive function. Females are particularly vulnerable to the effects of alcohol, the study on mice found. Chronic alcohol abuse is known to cause severe brain damage and neurodegenration. It was thought for a long time that the body did not produce any new brain cells after early life, but relatively recently it

Violent Narcissists Raised By Parents Who Do These 3 Things

Violent Narcissists Raised By Parents Who Do These 3 Things

How parents raise narcissistic children. A permissive upbringing is one way parents raise narcissistic children, research finds. Two other important factors are lack of affection from parents and exposure to violence in the home. The conclusions come from a Spanish study of 591 adolescents. Narcissistic children were likely to be aggressive towards parents when they didn’t get what they wanted. Dr Esther Calvete, the study’s first author, said: “On occasions adolescents assault their parents because the parents themselves have been violent towards the children or among themselves. Through exposure to

Social Rejection Has A Surprising Mental Advantage

Social Rejection Has A Surprising Mental Advantage

Being rejected socially, can give you this outsider advantage. Being rejected socially makes people more creative, research finds. Feeling outside the group helps people generate more novel ideas. It may help to explain why so many great artists were outsiders — people who lived separate lives in order to produce works that would surprise and delight the rest of us. The study’s authors call it the ‘outsider advantage’. Professor Jack Goncalo, who led the study, said: “If you have the right way of managing rejection, feeling different can help you

7 Easy Ways To Spot A Narcissist

7 Easy Ways To Spot A Narcissist

Strangely, there’s no evidence narcissists use the word “I” more often. Narcissists tend to use more sexual language and swearing to grab attention, research finds. Other signs of narcissism include acting more extraverted, being less agreeable and expressing negative emotions loudly. The conclusions come from a study that tracked the everyday behaviour of 80 undergraduate students. The study’s authors explain their results: “…narcissism was associated with more extraverted behavior (e.g., talking about friends), more disagreeable behavior (e.g., swearing), and more sexual language use (e.g., “nude”). Furthermore, exploitativeness/entitlement—the most maladaptive facet